Struggling? It’s Just Because You Haven’t Learned to Use What You Already Have
Posted on September 02, 2024 by Anna Chin, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Somewhere along the way, someone or something made you believe that you weren’t good enough, that you were a burden, or that you didn’t deserve love.
You know, I’ve always believed that every single one of us is incredibly smart. Yes, you too! We are all designed that way, with our bodies functioning effortlessly, breathing, digesting, and living without any conscious effort. Remember when you were a child? Stress wasn’t even in your vocabulary! You simply knew what you needed and went for it—no fancy steak required to make you happy. So, why is it that as we grow older, we start doubting ourselves and our abilities?
Well, let me tell you something: It’s not because you lost the ability to believe in yourself. No, you didn’t lose it. You’ve just forgotten that you had it all along. Somewhere along the way, someone or something made you believe that you weren’t good enough, that you were a burden, or that you didn’t deserve love. But the truth is, you are and have always been enough—just as you are.
I know how the human mind works, probably better than most, and I’m here to remind you of that truth. It’s because I understand how to communicate with my own mind that I’m able to help others change theirs. I help people rediscover the person they’ve always been, the person who is capable, lovable, and worthy of every good thing in life.
You see, we all start off perfect, but over time, we start playing roles. We convince ourselves of lies like “I’m not lovable,” or “I’ll never be enough”. And because we’re so smart, we begin to believe these things as truths over time. But let me assure you, these beliefs are far from the truth. No one is unlovable. Every single person deserves love—starting with self-love.
Even if the world around you seems unloving, you have the power to love yourself. You were born to survive and thrive, not to suffer. Think back to your earliest days: you didn’t have to do anything, yet you were cared for, fed, and sheltered. But as we grow, things get complicated—thanks to influences from family, society, education, and other experiences that we weren’t taught to process properly.
As children, we often misinterpret events in our lives because we lack the guidance needed to understand them correctly. This misunderstanding can lead us to carry false beliefs into adulthood—beliefs that hinder our happiness and well-being. But here’s the good news: these misunderstandings can be corrected.
Imagine two people on a roller coaster. Both are screaming, but one is having the time of their life while the other is terrified. It’s all about the meaning they attach to the experience. Life is similar; it’s not always about what happens to us but how we interpret it. And, let’s be honest, is the “truth” always that important? What matters more is how we choose to live our lives—healthy, happy, and free.
If there’s one thing I want you to take away from this, it’s that your true self—your healthy, happy, passionate, hopeful self—has always been in there. It’s just waiting to be awakened. My role is to help you reconnect with that part of yourself, to reignite that spark that’s been dimmed by years of self-doubt and misinterpretation.
And even if I’m not the person who helps you find that light, trust me, it will come out eventually. The real you will find a way to shine through. But why wait? Why not start the journey now, so you can enjoy your life to the fullest, sooner rather than later?
