"I am losing myself"
Posted on September 12, 2018 by Shaimaa Shaltoot, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
A special article for amazing Moms out there.
I am receiving too many complains from Moms from different countries with different backgrounds, and they all have this problem in common, the problem is that they are taking all the child’s responsibilities on their own as if they are single moms, and the father is only a money source.
Let’s see how it started…
They didn’t ask for help when they needed and even if they asked once they never asked again, especially when their spouse didn’t do what he has been asked to do. Or did it in his own way not the mom’s way.
They sacrifieced their own time, health care, jobs and social life till they even forgot that they deserve to have a life and they lost their identities and went through depression.
Dear Moms, you should have your own time, do what you love, pamper yourself, or maybe read, or even go for a walk or morning coffee, you still have a life, and in order to give your child and your husband, you have to take.
If you have an empty cup and your child want to drink, how would you give him water and the cup is empty? You should fill this cup first to give him water.. right?
Then fill yourself with love, happiness, care, energy and appreciate yourself so you can even give more to your child and husband.
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