Talk to each other
Posted on July 13, 2018 by Caterina Barregar, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
Are you in a relationship and things are starting to get stale? Spend some time talking to each other. It could make all the difference in the world.
Talk to each other
July 13, 2018
Spend time talking about things
As your relationship continues to travel thru the years, sometimes, you loose the ability to talk to each other and it creates a sense of disconnection in all areas of your relationship.
Here are some tips on what you can talk about to bring you closer together.
Talk to each other about what is going on in the world. You may have different view points on certain subjects, but it’s important to understand and celebrate the difference between you.
Talk to each other about your day. There are things that happen in our every day lives, that are important to talk about.
Taking an hour at the end of each day to discuss:
· How your day went
· What went right
· What went wrong (don’t spend too much time here)
· What you got accomplished
· What you need help with
· How you can support each other
· What made you smile
· What you are grateful for
These are just some of the things you can do to lift each other up and create more connection.
Plan a date night.
Just for the two of you. Make sure that you talk about what you would like to do, and if you are both on different pages, then have one date night for your interest and another for your partners interests. Who knows, you may just learn something new and love it.
Go to the movies, Try a new hobby together, listen to your partners music,
Talk about things that are beyond your home life and relationship.
Expand your knowledge about one another. Learn about each other. Talking on this level helps you each remember why you fell in love in the first placeand it keeps the relationship active and fresh.
Caterina Barregar
Relationship Coach