The joy of clapping with one hand!
Posted on February 29, 2020 by Shubhangi Purandare, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Relationships can be improved! You can do it alone!!
While one talks or discusses about relationships, it’s often said that that it takes two hands to clap or in hindi " taali do haat se bajti hai" meaning that every realtionship is a give and take and both persons or parties involved need to be involved :) Also many a times one person in the relationship refuses to change or invest more or co-operate. But for the other person the relationship is important.
While talking with a lot of my clients I come across this argument that I just don’t get along ng with my boss or team mate or he/ she loves me and we want to make it work but he/ she does not/ cannot make the changes required. What then? Is it possible then to make such a relationship work. The answer is an emphatic yes.
The person who understands that some change is required to improve the relationship is the one who can and should make the change. The minute the willing partner Tweeks his/ her attitudes and beliefs and over time makes the necessary changes , the relationship is bound to improve. The simple mathematical rule of X+Y=Z can help. If X and Y are two persons in an equal relationship and Z is the relationship and Y remains constant then if X changes then Z is bound to change. So simple. So a shout out to all those who are willing..it’s never too late to change a relationship with a willing or unwilling other party. It’s always possible! Take that step and experience the joy of clapping with one hand :)
