WITHOUT SELF-LOVE, HAPPINESS CANNOT HAPPEN.
Posted on December 24, 2019 by Tarek Al Haddad, One of Thousands of Career Coaches on Noomii.
We have postponed our happiness, waiting for something to happen, and we hold our satisfaction waiting for our goal or dream to become true...
Nowadays, everyone’s agenda is simple:
FOLLOWING JOY AND PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS.
But by looking at the people around me, it seems no one really happy nor satisfied with what he has.
We have postponed our happiness, waiting for something to happen, and we hold our satisfaction waiting for our goal or dream to become true and we keep finding reasons for not being happy.
Those reasons differ from one person to the next, as we each have unique persuasion, but the most common block for happiness is the absence of self-love.
WITHOUT SELF-LOVE, HAPPINESS CANNOT HAPPEN.
We all know that self-love is essential, but few put into practice.
I AM CONTINUALLY AMAZED BY THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE WHO DON’T KNOW HOW TO LOVE THE PERSON THAT LIVES INSIDE.
But such fellows can tell us long detailed stories on how their self-ego controlled their actions and behavior their entire life.
So what explains then? When do we see these people who care only about themselves but also missing self-love?
That is simply because people mix between self-ego and self-love, and the conflict occurs when individuals try to express their own sense of shame and criticism by comparing themselves to people around them.
This type of thinking puts us even in more trouble. When we treat ourselves with disrespect, we attract people who treat us in the same way we expect to be treated.
OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE REFLECT OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH OURSELVES, AND WE WILL FIND THAT THE OPPOSITE IS ALSO TRUE.
We feel strong emotion if someone touches our immune self-ego system and dares to criticize us, with troubled thoughts, that is why we keep polishing and shining ourselves from outside, and we forget the inside.
some have grown under the belief, that either we can be ourselves or be what society wants us to be, This is just an ignorant way of existing, and we have the option to be both.
Learning How To Calibrate The External And Internal Relationship Is The Inner Work Of The Self-Love, Only By Self-Love We Integrated More And More Pieces Of Ourselves Our Sense Of The Whole Becomes Larger And Stronger, We Gain The Ability To Be More Mature And Capable Of Embracing Greater Possibilities.
THINK OF THE HEART TISSUE UNDER THE MICROSCOPE; IT IS BEATING UNCONSCIOUSLY AT THE CELL LEVEL, BUT WHEN ALL HEART CELLS WORK AS A WHOLE TO COMPLEX A GREATER FORM.
IT’S LIBERATING TO KNOW THAT A LOT OF INSTANT HAPPINESS COMES FROM SELF-LOVE.
