Accept things happening around you and let go of it:

Posted on April 28, 2019 by Deepa Kannan, One of Thousands of Leadership Coaches on Noomii.

Being a person who is more in control of things happening to you and around you, acceptance and let go is very difficult to practice. First of all, why should we accept things as they are? If so, how can we bring the change? How can things be in control? Remember, it helps in peace of our mind and brings clarity in our thinking and then change is something that has to come from within and not the one that you can bring in someone else as long as others are willing to change. It is the trust that will bring in change. Work on areas that is only in your control. What you can do for the change is in your control everything else is outside of our control. After all everything is in control of nature. One natural disaster can throw everything out of everyone’s control.

In any situation, if we are able to differentiate between the problem, situation and the person, its very easy to find a solution and accept it.
Perfectionist find it difficult to accept things and behaviours as it is. Off course we need all kind of people to serve this world. Give your inputs, suggestions and leave it to others to take their own decisions in their life. Accept their decisions and trust them as you have done your best in providing the inputs and suggestions. If you are the decision-making authority, take inputs and suggestions from others and include those in your decision to bring in trust and integrity. Always work on things that you can do, what you can contribute, how can you bring the change, instead of making others do it with authority. Trust and good relationship can do magic than power and authority in this millennial world.