Letter to My Inner Critic
Posted on October 03, 2018 by Fahad Alqahtani, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Why we create an inner critic and how long it should stay alive.
Dear Inner Critic,
You would be surprised that I am sending you this massage. You may assumed that your role is eternal in my mind. I thought so for a long time. This is actually what made you live in a comfort zone for years. It is interesting how some things that stays long enough can enjoy false authorities over their basic role. You existed because of accumulated fear – based parental refusal of my creativity as a child. Then you tried to serve on my parents’ behalf whenever I try something new in their absence. After long consideration of impact of your interruptions that did not added any value to projects in hand, I decided to eliminate you forever. As this may frustrate you, I have to thank you for your role that helped me to grow up and realize that your existence is not justified anymore and I can now lead my own decisions while welcoming doing mistakes and learning new things in order to break image of being right all the time. I am more comfortable with reality of being a trail and error practitioner and you can take my broken image with you to remind you of what brought you to exist in the first place.
Best regards,
Me