Every positive change we add to our lives brings us discomfort as it evolves.
Posted on September 09, 2018 by BRUCE KRAMER, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Imagine if no one made any mistakes and everyone lived in total comfort all of the time. From a distance, it looks good. What changes looking deeper?
To quote Dan Millman, author, “There are no mistakes only lessons. If you don’t learn the lesson the first time they get harder.” The errors we or the people around us make are part of how we digest what has value and what does not have value in our world. Without mistakes our learning and evolution to evolve ourselves would be seriously compromised. Through time and mistakes we become seasoned, experienced, more knowledgeable and grow faster. Many successful business owners today lived through past failures in earlier attempts to be successful. If we continue to make what we feel is a mistake over and over then we need to have a coach, an independent and objective perspective help us to understand what is feeding our negative outcome, or to understand some of the dynamics that may be at play. If it is very deep rooted and disturbed then we may need to have a professional therapist help to intervene for us. If we are afraid to get up to bat, or reveal our humanness then we can get stuck for a whole lifetime. Since our being alive is sacred, a gift, why not take a deep breath and know we are safe and we can reveal ourselves and the Universe will send us the help we need. Sometimes we call this the game of life. Life sets all of this up, it opens and closes doors. Let life help us to settle the dust and help us on our way. Those that feel they must suffer and dig deeper and deeper into a vicious cycle need special guidance and someday can realize that they are worthy of being loved and of giving love.
