Kill your Inner VICTIM
Posted on July 03, 2018 by Ashlie Garcia, One of Thousands of Entrepreneurship Coaches on Noomii.
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I have a recent meeting with my boss which turned out to be a long lecture on my performance. When she said my performance was poor and she had concerns, I immediately went into survival mode. I turned in to the victim, thinking of all of these reasons I was the VICTIM. After all, my poor performance was due to her lack of leadership, right? As I sat there and held back tears, bit my tongue and listened, I realized that allowing myself to be a victim has allowed me to perform poorly, do a half ass job and not own my downfalls.The bottom line is I was not doing what is expected of me and I need to get my stuff together. If you are anything like me, its much easier to feel like a victim. Its so easy to be a victim and it feels good! If you are ready to be more than a victim, I am ready to come along side you. Today is the day to kill our inner victim!