Forgiveness
Posted on June 26, 2018 by Graham Kean, One of Thousands of Career Coaches on Noomii.
Forgive - To GIVE as beFORe
Forgiveness is a choice – by your word.
Somebody did something to you, they hurt you badly, they did something unforgivable, yes, and you have a choice.
The anger, the bitterness, and the resentment you carry inside you keeps you from being able to live your own life with freedom and satisfaction, keeps you living in the past, and not present to the present.
It’s you living with the upset. It’s your life that is limited.
Forgiveness means letting go of the anger, bitterness, hatred and resentment you’re carrying around inside of you which has your life not work.
Forgiveness means to let the person who did what they did to you be. Let go of thoughts of getting even, revenge both covertly and overtly. To stop taking it out on the person, give up trying to make their life miserable, let go of ignoring them, stop trying to get back at them.
Forgiveness means to stop judging that person, making them bad and wrong.
Forgiveness means where you did something to someone else, being willing to let go of the guilt, making yourself wrong, judging yourself.
Forgiveness means having compassion for the other person & for yourself.
Forgiveness means to give up resentment against, and desire to punish. To stop being angry with, to pardon. To give as before. To let be. To allow what happened to be.
Real forgiveness.
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