5 Secrets of a Lasting Love

Posted on June 13, 2018 by Ellen Bolin, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.

People are always asking what the secret is to maintaining a loving relationship. As the daughter of parents who are still together after 63 years, and a relationship coach who is asked by many of my clients how people make their relationships work, I’ve come up with the top 5 secrets that make a relationship work. Here you go……

1) Commitment- You’ve both made a decision to put your relationship before anything else. That leads to a more secure relationship over the years. After all, you both have the same end game in mind, so together you will put the work in to grow what you’ve made.
2) You have each other’s backs- You make each other’s lives easier. Being in tune to each other’s needs and bringing out the best in one another is a sure sign to a long lasting love.
3) Laugh Laugh Laugh-Have Fun with one another. Leave each other love notes for your partner to find. Make them smile even when you are not there.
4) Communicate-This is a MUST. Let your partner into your life. Share your feelings, the good, the bad and the ugly with one another. Be kind in your delivery and don’t let things build up inside as they always come back to haunt you.
5) Make time for Sex- It’s easy to get caught up in your lives. Make sure you find the time to be intimate with one another. IT’S SO IMPORTANT.