Magic and miracles can only happen outside the comfort zone.
Posted on March 22, 2018 by Stella Scott, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
This is an excerpt from a longer article on my blog. I'm giving my take on what's needed for the miracle of transformation into self-love to happen.
It takes an awful lot of energy to hold yourself down.
It takes an awful lot of energy to not be the Queen of your life.
Or at least have the potential to be.
However, let me guess. As things look right now it’s merely potential?
Do you want that to change?
Is your desire to step up, or stay low?
Does it feel like you’re walking in circles?
You probably are.
What would you say about walking in spirals instead?
That means moving up with every single step.
It can feel like you’re moving in circles, it can look like you’re moving in circles, but in reality, you are moving up!
Who is holding you accountable for your awesomeness?
How do you hold yourself accountable for your awesomeness when you don’t know you are awesome?
I’ll do that for you. Hold you accountable for your awesomeness, because I know you are! I’ll hold you accountable for your low ends too.
When you balance on that edge sometimes you won’t only need someone to hold your hand. You’ll need somebody to carry you over. I will do that for you. I’ll carry you over.
I’ll believe in you when you don’t believe.
I’ll love you will you don’t love.
And I’ll challenge when you only want to hide.
However, this is not for everyone! Personal development is messy! I just want you to know it’s messy.
Who am I?
A stranger to you, no doubt. No guru. No fame.
Nevertheless… I’ll challenge you.
Challenging someone requires courage.
Challenging someone requires experience.
Challenging someone requires daredevil attitude.
I’ve been there, done that, and I will do it again. With you. If you let me.
Basically, I think you should go with someone who’s done it. Who’s ahead of you. There is no way you can find someone in any field that is “done”. Ahead will do.
The one you’re gonna lean into has to be ahead of you, have more skills, more knowledge, more experience within the field you too desire to evolve.
How else are you going to learn? You can’t afford to have a blind leading a blind.
I’m not talking about money here, I’m talking about something much more precious and important to you. I’m talking about your life. You are time. You know time is not money, time is life and nothing else. And life? Life is you.
Now, can we please let go of the ”fearless female” bullshit?” There are way too many things to discover out there to afford to be fearless.
When it gets unknown and scary that’s where I shine.
How do I know? Because I’ve been there.
I dare to step into the unknown territory with you. I dare to step out of my own comfort zone when I’m with you and that’s where the magic happens.
Nothing much happens within your safety zone
Do you thirst for magic and miracles to happen? Then you’ve got to go with someone who steps beyond safety. Magic and miracles can’t happen within your safety zone or within your coach’s safety zone. Magic and miracles can only happen when you walk away from comfort, out on thin ice and the ice breaks!
You won’t notice it cracking, but I will. And I will swim you to the shore. I’ve done that before, many times. I have training in swimming through this kind of ice cold water, holding somebody. It’s exhilarating and scary as shit!
Can you feel the stir within you?
Whether it’s excitement or fear, it doesn’t matter. The body reacts exactly the same way to both!
I know you desire to change the world yet that change can only happen by transforming you.
If you do nothing, it will get worse.
But when you act you’ll move forward in life.
You’ll experience the love of self, love of life and gratitude will abound.
