You have to change!
Posted on March 09, 2018 by Chaya Reich, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
Sometimes we have to be brutally honest with ourselves. If you want change in your life YOU HAVE TO CHANGE. Yes, YOU.
Sometimes we have to be brutally honest with ourselves. If you want change in your life YOU HAVE TO CHANGE. Yes, YOU. You have to change – Not anyone else, YOU. When I say you I mean YOU, your reactions, your actions, your triggers, your pain, your stuff has to change. If someone comes into your life or exits it how are you different than you were before? How are you handling the relationships you have? How are you reacting? What are you saying, doing, being? Are you telling yourself you have changed but still caught in the old cycles, old habits with old people who are not changing?
Hate to be brutally honest, but guess what you have to change still. Yes, you have to change. Sorry, no way around it.
Making new choices, dealing with your s—- means you change, you expect and want the change from you first and foremost not another person. You be the change you want, you are the change you need. Want more, be the change. Need more, be the change. Want better communication, more love, more everything.. be the change. Self love and self work means YOU change. Its not easy, its not automatic, it takes time, diligence and self awareness. You are the one changing, the one becoming the butterfly from the caterpillar, YOU and only you. When you transform you the other person’s nonsense, people’s crazy becomes just that other people’s issues, other people’s stuff. You got you and you are free because you changed, you transformed. You are seeking more for you.
I help people change every single day, I watch the process, I see the amazing happen but I know one thing YOU HAVE TO CHANGE and make that a choice for you. You choose you to change , you choose self love, self care, even if you aren’t so great at it right now, you will be by the time you change you. I promise this because I have been there too.
Remember today Change you!! Big, small.. doesn’t matter, make a change. Do something different and discover you. <3
