GET THIS...AND GET SEXUAL FULFILLMENT IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Posted on August 02, 2016 by Jeeva and Sulojana Sam, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
What happens between you when you’re outside the bedroom impacts your sex life more than what happens in the bedroom.
Picture this scenario.
Romeo comes home tired from working outside the home. Juliet’s tired from working hard to take care of the children and the household chores.
He collapses on the couch, turns on the TV, wolfs down the meal she’s prepared for him and ignores the kids who demand his attention. Then he takes a nap.
Meanwhile she continues to slave away in the kitchen, attend to the children’s needs and can’t wait to get some sleep.
Romeo wakes up refreshed from his nap and perky, if you know what I mean. He’s ready to assert his manhood and enjoy his, er, marital status.
How is Juliet feeling by this time?
He hasn’t said a nice word to her since he got home. He didn’t give her a hand with anything around the house. He has carried on as though she didn’t even exist.
All of a sudden, when he needs sex, she shows up on the radar. He starts telling her how beautiful she is, how much he loves her, desires her, etc. He expects her to shed her maid uniform and morph into Lady Godiva in a hurry.
Fat chance, huh?
Romeo and Juliet can be the most physically attractive couple on the planet, the most committed Christians you’d ever want to know, the best at making each other double over with physical pleasure in the entire universe.
But they are not getting anywhere in their sexual relationship, because he has done nothing to make her feel lovable, likeable or attractive outside the bedroom. Yet, all of a sudden, he expects her to feel loved, liked and attractive enough to have sex with him.
Instead, Romeo needs to understand this simple principle:
“What happens between you when you’re outside the bedroom impacts your sex life more than what happens in the bedroom.”
Treat each other like dirt during the day…I can guarantee you’re not hitting pay dirt at night!
Focus on filling each other’s emotional love tanks with words and actions that convey affection and appreciation every waking moment…and you will find yourself being more physically fulfilled with each other!
Hey Romeo! You need to let Juliet know over and over again how much you like her—the way she looks, the way she wears her hair, the new top she bought, the meal she cooked, the chores she did—get the picture?
Ditto for you, Juliet. Appreciate him for working hard at his job, the way he keeps the grass cut and the yard neat, the dishes he did, the vacation he planned, the way he keeps his truck spotless—and anything else that is praiseworthy.
When both of you make each other feel liked more, the more you will both want to make love to each other more.
Yes, it is that simple, yet so profound.
Blessed are those who get this, for they shall get sexual fulfillment in their marriage.
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