Want to find your soulmate? First, find yourself.
Posted on May 25, 2016 by Michael Hochberg, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
If you want to find a soulmate you must first find yourself. Do you know who you truly are?
If you want to find a soulmate you must first find yourself. Do you know who you truly are? Your soulmate is attracted to that part of you that is self-assured and self-confident.
People who look in the mirror and like what they see and who can be comfortable with themselves in almost any situation, have found themselves. This does not mean that they don’t sometimes get angry or depressed or feel anxious. They use these feelings as guideposts to see how well they are doing. They deeply appreciate themselves and they shine. This helps them to attract their soulmate. Start looking on the inside and see who you really are.
What are you best and worst qualities? What are your hopes and fears? What do you like to do for fun? What is your relationship with yourself like? It’s important to like your own company. If you don’t, others won’t like your company as much either.Be kind to yourself. Look for the good qualities that you have. There is always something good you can find if you search for it. Be your own best friend. The idea is to prepare yourself and make yourself whole before you start looking for your other half. So often our attitude is to meet someone to complete what’s missing inside ourselves, when we should meet someone to complement what we already have within.
