People are like Good and Bad Tasting Cakes

Posted on March 28, 2016 by Delbra Brown, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.

When I was younger and desiring to date, I thought men would want the same things in their relationship that women wanted. I thought if he cared about me, he would take the time to get to “learn” who I was. I learned the hard way, that although that sounds like it makes sense, sometimes people are very different by design. Once I understood the fact that men were from mars and women were from venus, I then started calling men the “Men People” because I had to have a mental trigger that reminded me that how they thought about the same things, or how they responded to them were different than me. Over the years, I have come to discern the difference not just in men, but in people whose personality and thoughts were different than mine. This has helped me to learn how to be patient, understanding and even empathetic with others. The materials you learn in in the Cake Chronicles 80/20 relationship challenge and the workshops for singles help to provide you the tools you need to identify when a person’s behavior and thoughts are different that yours. This helps you establish boundaries and ways to communicate more effectively with them. Better ingredients make great cakes and time spent developing relationships create healthy, longer lasting relationships.