1o Steps to get you from where you are to where you want to be
Posted on September 23, 2014 by Kamaljeet Saini, One of Thousands of Executive Coaches on Noomii.
Ever wondered if there were a simple formula to help you get from where you are to where you want to be in life? Here is a 10 step process I use…
1. Seek clarity on what you truly want to have or Create. Many people keep going aimlessly through their days, doing things that add up to nothing substantial for themselves or the world around them. Asking questions is one of the best methods to be super clear on your goals and objectives that really matter to you.
2. Develop mental focus so that you can stay on track with your goals and objectives. A laser sharp focus is one of the key elements of people who are successful at anything.
3. Keep yourself positive and do not let negative thoughts of self-doubt, worry, fear etc. affect your positive vision to create what you want to create. Negativity saps you of vital life force energy and takes away your creative powers. This is one of the key elements that will help you get from where you are to where you want to be.
4. Be mindful of your thoughts. Every time you see yourself thinking or behaving negative, quietly shift your focus to any positive thought that feels right in that moment. It could be anything that makes you feel a little better than before…small things add up real quick.
5. Stop blaming, judging and gossiping about others as this will not affect them but you! After all, every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
6. Surround yourself with positive like-minded people who support your ideas, care for you and help you grow. Move out of the company of people who are always complaining about themselves, others or the world around them, such thoughts and ideas lead to nothing good but to only bad, both for yourself and others. Be aware of this fact.
7. Once or twice a day, take some time off to sit quietly in a place, thinking, dreaming and visualizing about the achievement of your goals. This habit will slowly start shifting you towards your goals with a positive expectation.
8. Live in the moment – Past is history, future is mystery, this moment is a gift and that is why it is called as “The Present”…be super happy in the now, come what may, good or bad!! Everything is fine in the bigger picture of your life.
9. Take action to move towards your goals. If your goal or objective seems too big and overwhelming, break it down into smaller achievable milestones and action steps and start taking baby steps towards them, with a strong belief in yourself. Let people think what they have to think, that is their problem. No one knows you better than you do.
10. Take time to pay gratitude for all the good things you have today…no matter what your condition be, there will always be something that you can be grateful for. Seek what is good in your life and quietly say, “Thanks”.
Hope you liked my 10 steps to get you from where you are to where you want to be. If you did, please share this with your friends and family and help make this world a little better, today!