ARE YOU READY FOR LOVE?
Posted on August 30, 2014 by Coach Rori, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
When we feel better, we think better!
In life we do not get what we want, we get what we believe. Romantic love is no different. Our core beliefs about love and relationships will manifest in our lives. Do we feel ready for love? Have we made room in our hearts and our minds for love? Are we cynical and even resistant to love? The following points below will help you determine your beliefs and how they may be impacting your love life.KEEP AN OPEN HEART:
We are successful and independent. We have evolved. We are modern women. We are finding fulfillment in so many areas of our lives, do we REALLY need a man? After all, the whole point of a relationship is not the person, it’s the feeling that we experience when we are with them. Healthy relationships give us a feeling of fulfillment and satisfaction; they add value, beauty and depth to our lives.
However, many women are doing a phenomenal job of creating these feelings of fulfillment being authentic through friendships, purpose, and career. As successful women, it may be tempting to close our hearts to the perceived “drama” and potential heartache of romantic love. To remain open and vulnerable enough to admit our desire for love can be a miracle within itself.
We live in a world of low-trust. Restoring our hope and faith in love requires that we first return to our only source of unfailing love, God. It also requires that we open our hearts and minds to all of the possibilities of love. I’ve heard more than a few women belt out the self-protective mantra: “I can do BAD all by myself!” But who says “doing bad” in a relationship is the only option? Healthy love is amazingly GOOD.
ARE YOU COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN?:
Healthy love seeks out the woman who is surrendered to loving and honoring herself first. Until a woman is comfortable in her own skin, she’ll consistently betray her inner self. When we feel good about ourselves, physically, mentally spiritually and emotionally, we rise.
When we feel better, we think better, and our thoughts create our experiences. When we stop running and hiding from ourselves and embrace our value, we are ready to be seen. Fully realized (whole) women are POWERFUL. It is a woman’s birthright to cultivate joy, peace and happiness. Nurture a spirit of rest and abundance in your own heart, and you will radiate a natural light of “soul-ease” and become a magnet for love.
DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?:
I’m in love with love! I desire that every woman meet her match, her equal partner in life and love. I want every woman who desires meaningful love to meet her soul-mate, and enjoy a relationship where intimacy and connection is healthy, nurturing and life-giving. I also desire that women truly love and accept themselves first.
When we treat ourselves with unconditional love, grace and compassion, we send an abundant vibe out into the universe. We “invite” good things to seek us. We receive what we give. When we nurture happiness, wholeness and freedom in our own hearts, we invite more love and abundance into our lives.
ARE YOU READY FOR LOVE?
You are ready when you believe that you are worthy of love. You are worthy when you know that you are already “enough.” There is nothing left to prove. A woman is ready when she understands that a man does not complete her, but rather he compliments her life. A woman is ready when she understands that while a man can add or subtract from her happiness, he cannot make her happy. Happiness, like peace, is an inside job. You are ready when you fully embrace the glory of your own heart, purpose and authentic desires. You are ready when you know what you want and need in order to flourish in life.
You are ready when you have forgiven your past mistakes and relationship regrets. You are ready when you have healed from blame, self-pity and self-sabotage. So, are we ever really ready for love? Life is a series of lessons. Healing has many layers. Single or married, we never stop evolving, healing, learning and growing. Remain open. Make room in your heart and mind for love.
Remove the hindrances of fear, doubt and mistrust. Declare to life that you are: “OPEN” to receive love, whenever and however it comes. Live with expectancy. When you are truly ready, nothing on this earth can stop the love that is yours from finding you.
