How To Attract The Love You Want
Posted on August 30, 2014 by Coach Rori, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
The love you attract is a mirror of the love you create....
HOW TO ATTRACT THE LOVE YOU WANT
- THE LOVE YOU ATTRACT:Is a mirror of the love you create
One of the first rules of leadership is that you attract what you are, not what you want. In other words, if you want a higher caliber, be a higher caliber. The same holds true in love. We rarely attract the kind of love we want. We attract the kind of love we have created, and the kind of love we are willing to give.
- DEVELOP YOUR LOVE:
Before any relationship is successful, there must be personal development. In the area of love, this takes introspection and a willingness to look closely at ourselves and our capacity to love, as well as the depth of our love. If my love is shallow, then shallow is what I’ll attract.
What I can do is define what kind of love I would like to receive, and then work to produce that kind of love in my own life. Many people want good friends, but they themselves are not the kind of friend they seek to have. First improve yourself, and love who you are and you’ll attract that quality to yourself.
- USE YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIPS AS A MIRROR:
Are you unhappy with the quality of your current relationship? Instead of blaming the other person, why not look closely at them and ask yourself why are you attracted to them to begin with. Often, the very thing we despise in others is the very quality we ourselves possess. We are blind to it ourselves, we don’t acknowledge our own short comings. We must take time to fix us, and the proper results will follow.
- CREATE AN ENVIRONMENT OF LOVE AROUND YOU:
Start by loving the people in your life right now. Your love and the demonstration of it will attract someone to you who has the same caliber of love.
You may sit around wishing you had someone to love you, but if you start loving those in your life and loving yourself in the same way you would like to be loved, that love will find you. We all have the same Love Languages… And they’re 5 of them….
1) Words of Affirmation
2) Acts of Service
3) Receiving Gifts
4) Quality Time
5) Physical Touch
But, out of those 5 Love Languages one or two are the strongest. And we each have a different one so learning what yours are and your mate then you two can have the love of a life time. Please leave a comment and let me know your thoughts. As always, I love to hear from the readers and your feedback is helpful to others as well. Thank you! Coach Rori.
