Birth, Design & Influence
Posted on March 26, 2014 by Jessica Cooper, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Anything you can visualize in your mind you can create! Simply sit down and think about how you want your family to function and what values and goals
This may sound really obvious, but if you don’t like the way things are going in your home, change them! Moms are designed by nature with an incredible ability to birth, design, and influence. And we must find positive ways to utilize these innate gifts to develop the optimal environment for our family and household.
BIRTH out the vision you see for your family and home
Anything you can visualize in your mind you can create! Simply sit down and think about how you want your family to function and what values and goals you want to accomplish. Like developing a baby, it takes time, some discomfort, and effort—but the vision will be birthed if you PUSH towards it!
DESIGN the home you want!
Regardless of if you are in your “dream home” or not, you can always renovate and beautify the place you’re in. Paint. Go to garage sales, Craigslist, Goodwill, etc., to find low priced items to decorate your home if you can’t afford what you really want right now. Get ideas from Pinterest to spruce up old things.
Use your power to INFLUENCE!
Sometimes your spouse or kids will not see the purpose or want to put forth the effort towards improvement and change. And in instances like these, the power of influence is always better than an argument. Simply present the idea. If it’s not readily accepted, continue to work at it personally, giving it some time to sink in. Hear their concerns. Make small changes towards the goal. And re-“present” it and its benefits for your family again at a later time. Be creative!
You have the ability to influence even the most stubborn of people, and create the best reality for you and your family!
