Woman, the Gift from God to Man
Posted on August 24, 2010 by Dr Glyniel Garner, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
I would like to take a moment to ask all married men, "Do you see your wives as the precious gift that God took the time and built just for you?"
Woman, the Gift from God to Man
Everything that God made, He made it to be a giver as Himself. The sun gives, light and heat, the flowers give off a sweet fragrant in the air, bees give honey, and the clouds give shade and rain.
When God created man in His image, He made a man that was not able to give anything since he had no one to give to. God insisted that it is not good for man to be alone; God made a helper that would be suitable or proper for him (Genesis 2:18).
The Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and God took one of his ribs, and He built a woman just for man and presented him with the ultimate gift from God. Then Adam declared that this gift was bone of his bones, and flesh of his flesh; that she shall be called woman because she was taken out of man. (Genesis 2:21, 22)
I would like to take a moment to ask all married men, “Do you see your wives as the precious gift that God took the time and built just for you?” Many men if they really assessed this question would find that truthfully they could not answer that question with a quick “Yes”.
Marriages are failing so rapidly around, and in the church there is no exception there. Many men don’t view their wives as the gift which God’s intended from the start. Man is to love and cherish their wives until death do they depart.
What is a gift? (noun)
1. something bestowed voluntarily and without compensation.
2. the act, right, or power of giving.
Woman was given to man to be that suitable helper and gift from God in marriage. There are divine purposes of marriage as to what God wished to give to man and to the world. God knew there would be a need for woman after He formed man. The woman is absolutely essential in the plan of God.
Woman’s role in the will of God was to be a “help” who was suitable to maintain every particular mental, spiritual, emotional, social, and physical need.
When Adam declared “bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh”, this resulted in what has become know as the universal law of marriage. It can be seen that:
1. the responsibility for marriage is on the man’s shoulder – man is to “leave his father and mother”;
2. the responsibility for keeping the union together is on the man’s shoulder’s – man is to “cleave unto” (stick to) his wife; and
3. the union is indissoluble – “they shall be one flesh.”
Woman as the gift from God to man is to bring him complete satisfaction.
Contentment and satisfaction with the wife in marriage is essential for a happy marriage. Proverbs 5:19 states “Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished or exhilarated always with her love.”
Husbands are to appreciate God’s gift that has been given to him by cherishing his wife tenderly, as a delicate object of affection, focus on her body and sexuality only, and let her affection and devotion consume him.
With the high use of internet today, so many men have fallen into the trap of bondage of satisfying their lustful desires outside of the marriage. There are pornography sites, chat lines and instant messaging that has taken the place of the sacred bond of marriage and their vows as communication has broken down along with intimacy and trust.
It is God’s choice that the wife of your youth be the only one to satisfy him. It is not the will of God that man disregards His order and seeks the affection or to fulfill his sensual cravings through artificial means.
by Glyniel Garner
Glyniel Garner is a Professional Life Coach, Board Certified Biblical Counselor, Certified Marriage Mentor, Small Group Trainer &
Facilitator. She is the founder of New
Horizon Coaching Associates & LIFE Enrichment Ministries in Ocala,
Florida. She is a wife for over 23 years & mother. Glyniel can be
reached at www.nhca-llc.com
