LOVE IS A DANCE
Posted on June 25, 2013 by Dr Zannah Hackett, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
Knowing how to move in a relationship.
Do what you love and the money will come. How many times have you heard that? Often business professionals and executive coaches spend session after session trying to assist their clients in gaining clarity as to what change to make. The key word is “CHANGE”. It’s the one thing that we all know we can count on and the one thing that serves at the epicenter of love or loving well enough to be successful. Many people often do not get lessons in learning how to love their work, or in embracing their job responsibilities and managing the differences that come with being surrounded by many various personalities. Instead it is something they do as a means to an end. In fact the word LOVE on an executive business forum or an employment site is almost unheard of. Yet, LOVE is everything when it comes to achieving success naturally. Gain that comes naturally, gives us energy.
I can’t tell you how many people have come into my office saying. “I don’t even know what love looks like!” or “what it feels like!” The truth is, LOVE is not a look or a feeling… it is a movement. That’s right. Love is having the ability to adjust, flex and flow in the face of harmony and adversity. It’s being able to shift gears, change plans, take over, hold back, organize, stir things up, laugh, cry and even disappear when you know it will serve the situation best. All too often we stand glued, attached and fixated to an expectation or imagined outcome. The result frequently becomes more important than the relationships leading up to the grand finale. Guess what? It’s always about the relationships.
Love in a relationship is an exquisitely improvised piece of choreography ever revealing new lyrical sequences that entertain and enlighten our existence. It usually starts out as a soft prelude and as time goes on the steps we take become a reflection of the choices we make. Ask yourself, how well do you move through your life and in the management of all your relationships? If you move well… then you LOVE well. It’s just that simple.
