Gents: You are single, lonely and pissed....because you CHOOSE to be...
Posted on June 29, 2010 by Mark Aguirre, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Stop whining and get a life before you die.
So, you’re an average looking, Joe… right? You believe that looks and money are what attract the perfect soul mate. Yet, you don’t have either.
The first reason why you don’t have that really pretty soul mate by YOUR side is this:
*You didn’t approach her..and the ugly dude did. *
End of story.
So, what’s the remedy? Stop being a wuss and such a pessimist.
Stop thinking that 9 out of 10 women you talk to are going to slap you, turn away, laugh out loud or go into a full-body dry heave.
It simply is NOT going to happen.
*You can easily make up for your average looks *by offering what people tend to be drawn to most, but usually spend the least amount of time perfecting:
1. Stop whining and get a life
2. Approach and engage EVERYBODY with no expectations
*Remember: You are what you attract. *
THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A SEC…
The key to being approachable is to smile. If you have no reason to smile, then you haven’t CREATED a life of interest that will make you smile to begin with.The answer you probably didn’t expect, right? Did you need a PHD to tell you otherwise?
Once you start doing things you WANT to do for fun, then you can’t wait to share the stories with others…..and do so with a smile.
The 2nd reason WHY YOU ARE LONELY…(and probably still pissed)
You are guilty of saying things like:
“It’s too far”.
“I have no one to go with”.
“I have to get ready for work tomorrow”.
OMG!!!!!!
It’s too far?
Compared to what? I*f happiness and adventure are an extra 15 minutes away, what the hell is wrong with you?* If you win a vacation to anyplace outside of your hometown, are you going to decline the offer with this same, pathetic excuse?
*I have no one to go with? *
That is why you SHOULD GO!! The only reason that you have no one to go with is YOUR FAULT. You haven’t pulled yourself off the couch and ventured off to meet new friends who DO like to go places….
I have to get ready for work tomorrow????
*Translation: *
“I plan my whole uneventful life around my job……something that doesn’t do JACK for my social satisfaction and my true happiness….I will continue to ignore all of the finer, more important things that could bring me passion, excitement and fun….I will replace this aching desire of mine with my 40+ hour work week …that I pretty much loathe…. I would rather complain like I have been doing and I will continue to wonder where all the nice guys/girls are….just like everyone else…”
With a life of interest in full motion, could this be the instant HOOK to interest another?
*Instead of watching a great movie, try something completely new …live your own movie. *
The HYPE for your new role will do you good. No more lame responses on Monday morning at the cooler like: “Same shit, different day” will ever leave your lips again.
Until next time…
Mark Aguirre
Killer Confidence
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