Realize A Stronger Relationship
Posted on October 11, 2012 by Julie DeVito, One of Thousands of Business Coaches on Noomii.
If it's not going the way you want, then you're ONLY option is to change YOURSELF. Are you being the real YOU in your relationship?
Any relationship in your life–or any relationship “challenge”–is about YOU. Whether we’re talking about your significant other relationship, your kids, parents, clients…coworker…whichever one is challenging you. Look at You. You are the center of that relationship, and you have control of your actions. That is all that matters–changing YOUR SELF and your results by changing what you are doing. We all know that we cannot change another person….but we can AFFECT CHANGE in others by our actions.
So much of our challenge in relationships is because we are not being REAL. Start with getting real with yourself. Are you being true to who you really are? Giving your full self to this relationship goal? Are you truly being honest about your personal efforts and objectives? Are you open, willing to listen and hear the other party’s needs?
Change how you are responding to the people and circumstances. Change your own thought processes and behaviors. Dig deep within you and access new parts of YOUR OWN SELF and your own creativity in any relationship challenge. Change your habits and you change your results!
If it’s not going the way you want, then you’re ONLY action is to change YOURSELF.
