How to Click Your Life Into Place
Posted on June 19, 2012 by Arlene Miller, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
Learn how to feel like you really belong with yourself and your life.
Belonging is a huge topic. When people ponder belonging and what it means to them, they often talk about their family, community, country, football, baseball, hockey and soccer teams and their temple, synagogue or church.
How would it be to expand our concept of belonging and go deeper?
Do you feel that you belong with yourself and your life? Have you compromised yourself in order to fit in? Do you feel that you belong to the Earth, Spirit and the Universe? How can you live and belong more authentically?
Belonging starts inside of us when we drop deep into the core of our being and love and appreciate ourselves for who we are, warts and all. When we experience a rock solid feeling of belonging to the God within, everything changes. Other people’s opinions about us don’t matter anymore; they are just their opinions and don’t affect how we feel about ourselves and live our lives. Within our deep sense of belonging to ourselves and to Spirit within, we can come from the heart and enjoy life; there is a sense of involved detachment; empathetically connecting with others, being compassionate yet not being swayed by the fears, worries, anxieties or concerns — staying true to the heart and loving the truth. If it’s not love, it’s not the truth.
Belonging to the Earth is a wondrous feeling; knowing that we are connected to Gaia, the spirit that embodies our lovely planet; feeling connected and at One with the other kingdoms that share Earth with us – mineral, plant, animal, souls, devic. Our bodies come from the earth; they are a gift to us from Gaia to use and enjoy; ‘I belong to the Earth and she belongs to me’; feel into that; appreciate and be grateful for this beautiful world we live in; it is an amazing place when you open your eyes and really see it; when you open your heart and really feel it.
Universal Heart is a huge, vast, all-encompassing loving presence; when you acknowledge the great, unconditional love and compassion of universal heart, the feeling of belonging is amazing; it’s about opening up, surrendering and allowing the love/light energy to flow into your being and fill you up; sensing, feeling and knowing at-one-ment with the universe is a key to experiencing true belonging; other feelings of belonging pale in comparison; this amazing connection is available to us in all moments, we only need to allow ourselves to become one with universal heart.
Belonging to Spirit, the Earth and the Universe are about having a direct connection with Source – not buying into the status quo of needing an intermediary between one’s Self and Mother/Father God. How would it be to discover this connection and experience belonging in a whole new way?
Ponder belonging and see what comes up for you.
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