Using Your Feminine Wiles

Posted on May 22, 2012 by lll ccc, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.

I will preface by saying, you must have a mutual connection with your partner, to make this work effectively. Any elements of unrequited love will only cause you frustration in the end. This is also not, however, a free pass to have a sexual encounter with someone on the first date, unless that’s what you and you partner both consent to and desire; but you should learn how to use what God has blessed you with. It could be your voice, smile, your curves, your intellect, any talent or multitude of things that he admires about you, make it sexy, sensual, appealing and alluring to him.
Every woman possesses a certain allure and the more confident you are the sexier you are to men.
Read books on sex and sexuality.
Talk to him to find out what little things turn him.
Allude to what is waiting for him later.
Find out what he likes, then use it to his advantage—I say his advantage because he will greatly benefit from a woman who can arouse his passion. You will also benefit because it will awaken his curiosity and keep him coming back to you for more of whatever it is you choose to give him.
But if you are a goddess of the first order, at some point, unless you have communicated with him your wish to lead a celibate lifestyle, he will expect what was alluded to. Even if it’s much later than promised because most men are sexually driven and very….
Sexually Demanding—
They love us. They love looking at us. Our perfumed hair brushing against their faces, a slight flick of our wrist, the curve of our backs, the little spot below our belly buttons. All of these insignificant things for us are exciting to them. It isn’t fair to use sex as a weapon against them i.e. withholding sex when in an already committed relationship. Losing interest in your partner is one thing, but to use sex as leverage for either party is never good business for a relationship. So open up to your partner, give him what he desires as long as it respects any boundaries you two have set and previously agreed on. Role play and be who he wants. Strip for him, belly or pole dance for him. Get another woman in on the act, if you are so inclined and open enough to accept it.