Clear Obstacles to Healthy Relationship W/You and Your Loved Ones
Posted on February 13, 2012 by Kathilyn Solomon, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
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Relationship Issues That Seem Tough to Clearh1. Your title here…
- I don’t know how I can last another day with him….
- If it wasn’t for the kids, I’d be long gone….
- I can’t imagine spending the rest of my life with her….
- What did I ever see in him/her?
- How come I can’t seem to keep a relationship?
- I’m about to get married and afraid I’ll make the same mistakes I did the first time…
Do any of these above sentences sound familiar? These are the kinds of issues that we work to clear in my EFT practice.
I work with people who are dealing with really diffiucult challenges — two working parents with 3 young children under the age of 5 who need to communicate and who are not getting their needs met but who must depend on each other right now. I have helped spouses get to the core of what’s underlying “can’t stand” or “really need him to do it my way” or “frustrated because she’s so disorganized” stuff.
When we get to the bottom or core of the upset, we often find it’s a childhood remembrance that was traumatizing, or maybe it was a way you grew up in your household that is driving your issue with your partner.
Becoming conscious of what’s underneath your upset can bring up the emotion that has been suppressed. This is what EFT does. But it does not bring the emotion up to have to experience it over and over again. It brings up the emotion to release it, or clear it. And once that early core charge is cleared, you find you are better able to cope with your spouse’s issues and imperfections.
I have found in my practice that after tapping on something that was really bugging one of the other partners/boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses, the client is way more responsive as opposed to reactive and embroiled in the emotion. What then has happened, regularly, is that the other partner has softened. The cord of tension between the two has eased up…. And they have more life force, vitality, and more of themselves to bring to the relationship to allow it to grow and be healthy.
If you want to try EFT, you can call me for a free 20 minute consutation. During that time, we will tap, so yo can experience my style. I have been a prractitioner since 2003, with certification as Cert – 1 EFT, EFT Level 1 and EFT Advanced. I would love to tap with you—skype, phone, retreat or in office. kathilyn@gmail.com
