Narcissistic Puzzle
Posted on November 22, 2023 by Rasha Al-Aloosi, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
This article sheds light on "hovering," a behavior in narcissistic relationships where the narcissist seeks to reconnect after a breakup.
Have you ever experienced that constant feeling like a past relationship is never really over? That’s what we call “hovering” in the world of narcissistic interaction. It’s a behavior where a narcissist tries to re-establish contact after breakup or separation. When a narcissistic person feels a loss of control or attention, they might start hovering. This means they will try to reconnect, sending constant messages, or popping up unexpectedly. It’s their way of trying to regain influence over someone they’ve had a relationship with. It’s emotionally challenging for the person that receiving these behaviors. Hovering can make it tough to move on and break free from the influence of the narcissist. Understanding “hovering” can empower you. Knowing the signs can help you set healthy boundaries and take the control. If you’re experiencing this, remember, it’s okay to prioritize your well-being. Seek support, whether from friends, family, or a professional, to navigate these complex situations. Breaking free from the cycle of hovering is a step towards healing and reclaiming your life. You deserve peace and happiness.