How To Lessen the Emotional Charge of Goals That Feel So Far Away
Posted on September 16, 2023 by Sydney Sage, One of Thousands of Career Coaches on Noomii.
How to emotionally detach from goals so you aren't too disappointed in not having what you want yet. Which can help you get it faster!
How to take the emotional charge out of goals that feel so far away or struggles that don’t seem to go away…
Stop. Breathe. Pause. Now ask yourself…
What is the personal growth opportunity for me here? Because I can promise you, there almost ALWAYS is one. It might sound cheesy, it might sound elusive, but every time I find myself in a rut I ask myself this question and an answer comes through.
MCCs (master certified coaches) put a strong emphasis on who you are being vs what you are doing, which adds another depth of dimension to personal growth, problems, and goals in general. There is attention brought not only to what you are doing but who you are BEING in your life situations.
What lens you are seeing the situation through? Who you will BECOME as you move through this icky slice of life that will not last forever? Who will you become when you reach your next current goal?
It’s a deeper reason, a deeper lesson underneath the situation that weaves through it like a snake in tall grass. That makes it all make sense. That makes it seem like it’s FOR you and not just AGAINST you.
Now, think to yourself, what’s a goal, or struggle you have, and what’s the personal growth opportunity wrapped within it?
