Choosing Wisely for Clarity
Posted on August 20, 2023 by Rasha Al-Aloosi, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
This article discusses the importance of choosing the right person to seek advice from when facing tough decisions.
“Avoiding a Common Mistake: Picking the Right Help When You Need It
We’ve all been there – faced with a tough choice, feeling stuck, and wanting advice. It’s natural to ask those around us for help. But here’s the thing: it’s not just about finding someone who’s nice and kind; it’s about finding the right match.
Let’s break it down. Imagine you’re at a crossroads, not sure what to do next. The last thing you need is advice from someone who’s struggling with their own decisions and always asking others for opinions. They might care about you a lot, but their own uncertainty can actually make things worse instead of better.
It’s not about how much they care for you, it’s about their own difficulties. How can they guide you when they can’t even decide for themselves? It’s not fair to expect them to help you, and it might even go wrong. Their doubts can silently affect your thoughts, making you unsure and stopping you from taking the first step to success.
This quiet influence isn’t always easy to notice. Their hesitation, without either of you realizing, can make you feel negative and doubtful. So, when you’re looking for help, choose carefully. Find someone who’s not just kind but can also give you clear advice.
Remember, asking for help isn’t a weakness – it’s a strength. But that strength comes from picking the right person, someone who can guide you to be positive, confident, and on the best path for you. Choose your supporters wisely, and watch your journey become clearer and brighter.
