From Dreams to Reality- How to Take Control of Your Life and Achieve Your Goals?
Posted on March 25, 2023 by Raviv Kraemer, One of Thousands of Entrepreneurship Coaches on Noomii.
Dreams give us motivation, but as long as they stay dreams and not our reality, they mostly bring us frustration. How to turn them into your reality?
Our dreams and wishes suck If they don’t become our reality!
We think they give us motivation and drive, but more often than not, they mostly bring us frustration and self criticism – as long as they remain just dreams.
So how do you turn those dreams into your actual reality?
Dreams VS Goals
Our minds are constantly full of stories we tell ourselves. So many stories about our wishes and ideas and how we should and could have lived our ideal life: You might tell yourself that you want to live a healthier life, work-out more, work less hours, make more money, have a successful therapy or coaching practice while having enough time with your family, achieve the right work-life balance, go on the dream vacation you’ve wanted for ages, but very few of these dreams and stories actually become our reality.
Why?
Fears. We have so many fears that are covered by everyday’s life extravaganza – the endless stream of tasks and chores that prevent us from being fully aware of the processes that occur within you every single moment. They prevent you from remembering what you’re really here for in your deepest meaning.
In order to take control over your fears and setbacks, set the right goals and turn them into fruits of fulfillment, you’ll first need to gain a clear picture of your vision and through that, set the right kind of
goals and action items.
Next step is to learn how to be very organized in your mind, your intentions, your goals and your work-plan, as well as having an assertive drive to constantly get out of your comfort zone, be curious and take full responsibility as to what’s happening inside your body, mind and emotions.
By gaining this right type of awareness and by transforming your dreams into a vision, with actual goals and action items that will yield results, you will soon grow out of your old habits, limiting beliefs and patterns, and be able to achieve much much more than you did thus far.
“Reaching your full potential is not a milestone, it’s a lifestyle”
A great tool to gain more clarity in your life (and in your goals) is to create a vision board or a list of your goals and intentions, and then break them down into smaller, manageable and actionable steps, which will help you stay on track and focused on what you want to achieve. Make sure your goals are SMART: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Result oriented and with a defined Time frame, and add them right now to your Calendar —→ If it’s not in your calendar, it just won’t happen.
Experience is by far the best teacher.
By taking the right set of actions, you will learn how to handle different challenges and obstacles that will come your way and arise from within you, and there will be some, I can assure you – Embrace them, love them and thank them, they’re part of your path to grow even more!
You’ll soon learn how to fail and how to pick yourself up again, as it is an inevitable part of being active and setting out to achieve new goals and keep your development alive.
You will also learn how to celebrate the small victories and how to keep moving forward, despite, throughout and because of all the ‘fails’ along the way.
For me failures are just another form of learning, maybe the most important one.
Like a baby stumbling towards his first step: if he would never have taken his first step, stumble, take another step, stumble again and so forth, he would have never learned to walk.
We are all quite the same as this baby that we used to be, nothing really changed, but your set and decor, and maybe your expectations.
You still need to take the same steps to learn, develop and grow – with some love and compassion towards yourself while you do that.
What’s absolutely certain is that If you never take the first step and be courageous enough to step out of your comfort zone, you will never reach your goal.
“Even a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”
It is also super important to surround yourself with the right kind of people for you, people who will support your way no matter what, people who always want your best, who will encourage and motivate you to pursue your dreams – and also hold you accountable in making them actionable goals.
Seek out mentors, coaches and people who have already achieved what you want to achieve, and learn from their experiences.
Remember, the power of experience is not just about learning from the past, but also about taking action in the present, and creating the future you desire. Making your dreams into your goals and your new reality.
So, Contact me TODAY to take the first step into your new life, and start turning your dreams into reality.
What are you waiting for..? :)