My Relationship is...

Posted on January 30, 2023 by Joy Gathings, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.

What is your relationship with your partner? Do you feel like it came to a dead end, or are you questioning everything? Today I was asked what happen to us? we were a great couple living, loving very happy. Now it feels like a job. I always ask my clients what are you doing differently, Have you stopped trying to look appealing to one another ( sweats, looking like a mess) Do you always seem too tired for intimacy, lost interest in sex?

Couples get into a rut after a while and have a direct focus on their job, the kids, and the bills, always worrying about things not in their control at that moment.

Couples stop focusing on the relationship, they need time together and they need their outlet, such as guy night or girls night or day out without any worries about what’s happing at home except for emergencies of course. Couples also need date night at least twice a month no phones, no kids, just focus on each other.

I have noticed a lot of people in general will worry and have anxiety about things there is nothing you can do about it is out of their control for that moment. I recommend at the end of the day turn your phone off or at least down limit the use of electronics and get to know your partner or family. Really sit down and talk to each other and play a board game. Set a dinner time so everyone at the table no phones and actively listen to each other. How was your day? Goes a long way. Help one another with the dishes and clearing the table. Have a movie night at least once a month. Surprises and compliments are always a nice bonus.