Do you Jump to Conclusion’s?
Posted on October 08, 2011 by Tomeka Byars, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
How do you interact with the relationships around you?
I do! We may feel that a person may be upset when they don’t return our calls. It may possibly be that the person is busy, or possibly they didn’t receive the message we left. We must consider the positive possibilities before jumping to the worst case scenario.
By doing so we will prevent ourselves from making choices that we may later find ourselves regretting, those choices are then the one’s we often may make out of anger, as well as our personal lack of having all of the information deemed necessary to make a decision.
When we look at most situations that we are having a difficult time with , we will often discover the (US!) in the situation. When we counteract our negative behaviors as well as our thought patterns to a positive frame of thinking, our outlook on how we see many situations will change dramatically.
The first piece of advice is not to allow yourself to jump to conclusion. First Stop! then take a deep breath. When we are willing to become patient by allowing ourselves to wait what we think the outcome may be , in doing so often what we thought may have happen will change.
The bottom line in this self discovery blog is awareness in the recovery process, that everything isn’t always about us, people have other responsibilities. The people we interact with daily have a life outside of you and I . I was motivated in writing this due to my own personal struggle of jumping to conclusion’s . When we walk in love as Jesus did, we will see the best in people, even when the worse may sometimes be present. However we can then have a upbeat attitude in assuming that everything is okay by seeking out what is good verses looking for bad all the time. A lot of this behavior has to do with the dysfunctional past relationships we have dealt with in the past. So we have this stigma that all people we interact with are looking to somehow hurt us by treating us unfairly.
I love you! More importantly Jesus loves you & yes he does care
