What you get at Conception that determines your Health & Happiness even TODAY

Posted on February 03, 2022 by Diana Dentinger, One of Thousands of Career Coaches on Noomii.

Often people have the illusion of creating themselves from nothing but nothing could be further from reality. The only “reality” is your biology, meaning your DNA. It is not an opinion, it is real. DNA is the chemical matter you are made of and is the hereditary material which contains coded information about you as a unique human being.

More than 99% of your DNA information makes you the SAME as everyone else. The less than 1% is what makes you UNIQUE. And in this small percentage you have “Memory Information” from your father and mother that determines what you look like. You have traits that seem more or less like them in a unique blend.

You not only get your looks, you also get INHERITED EMOTIONAL MEMORY at conception. There is information in the sperm and egg that program how you “feel”, therefore think, act and react to situations and circumstances. These ways of being become your predictable challenges and conflicts as well as innate talents and Personality Needs.

What you might think Personality is.

The majority, if not all, of the Personality Assessments on the market belong in the category of Psychometric tests. The name denotes measuring your “psyche” or what you think abut yourself.
Their purpose is to help you identify your behaviours, values and skills such as your level of emotional intelligence and communication style preference and most likely use the outcome to change something about yourself or in your life.

These assessments are formed by a series of “forced answer” questions, such as having you choose from one of 4 responses or rating yourself on a scale from 1 to 10. The result is you being identified as one of 8 types. These have been proven unscientific and highly inaccurate with the answers changing based on your mood or stress levels. Studies now are showing they are misused for the selection of personnel and also discriminatory.

Why it’s vital to your health to know your Personality.

My father was an HR Director his whole life so I grew up in an environment in which leveraging your talents, performance and improvement were strong family values. And even after retirement my father went on to become a Leadership and Recruitment consultant using a Psychometric test called Predictive Index.

When he witnessed me coaching my sister through her Your Life Your WayTM Personality Profile back in 2013, he was astonished by the depth, accuracy and understanding this was able to catalyse in her. He finally realised that the mainstream approach, tools dating back from the 1920’s, defined a limited skill set of traits leaving out vital information about what drives the person.

“Needs” drive behaviour. When your body needs hydration, this ”drives” you to get something to drink. It is the same with your complete Personality Needs. They are a force, a desire inside of you that must be expressed by specific actions.

I created the Your Life Your WayTM Personality Profile by reverse engineering the root causes of Psychosomatic illnesses from my research and experience as a therapist in this branch of Neuroscience starting back in 2004.

I had learned how to unblock illnesses by knowing a clients innate Personality Needs plus facts from their family history. This data helped me know which “key words” they should repeat to themselves to rewire their brain, allowing the brain to reconnect to isolated neurons causing the illness.

But my goal was not to move into the Health field, rather to stay in Training and Coaching. I began testing how to elaborate the Personality Profile for maximum effectiveness with Corporate Teams I was training. They found that knowing each other as people in a personal way supported them reaching outstanding financial results.

Your Personality never changes.

Being you, expressing your innate Personality Needs, is quite a natural thing. You have done so all your life, but only sometimes consciously, often in a more conflictual manner and rarely living yourself in your greatest potential.

HOW IS THIS TOOL & MY COACHING DIFFERENT?
It starts with how we elaborate your Personality Profile. You fill out an open ended questionnaire describing your needs. What we see is that you use certain “key words” that indicate to us a certain Personality Need as well as in which Facet of Personality you have that Need.

There are 66 human conflicts that are also the array of human talents. You have one of these in each of the 12 facets of Complete Personality. You are so much more than just one of 8 types. The Personality Profile helps you tap into the potential of each of the talents, as well as overcome the predictable challenges with ease.

It is technically difficult to describe the whole process in an ebook. The best way to understand is to have your own Personality Profile so you experience the power. To recap, the Inherited Emotional Memory, that is in your DNA at conception, is stored in your limbic system, middle brain, in the form of images.

These images give you the picture of “what it is like to be you” and these are what you “project” out like a film on your screen of life. Therefore you encounter opportunities to fulfill these Needs because of how the brain works. What is critical is that you are connected to how you feel, because the memory is emotional. It is not about thinking nor mindset.

So often people talk about “self sabotage” or “imposter syndrome”. What are these?

DO YOU REALLY SELF SABOTAGE YOURSELF?
From my professional experience with hundreds of clients in over 20 countries of the world, the answer is NO. You are not “doing” anything to yourself. You are simply replaying emotional memory from someone else’s, an ancestor, conflict. When you make this conscious, by knowing your Personality Needs, you rewrite your software.

WHAT ABOUT IMPOSTER SYNDROME?
This too is a common phrase in the self help world, but is misinterpreted. You innately feel what is right for you to do. You innately know yourself. But how your brain is wired has you imitate role models and “do as others do” from an early age. This causes you mostly to lose yourself. Your brain sees other people and create “images” of what you should be to be as they are and also to belong.

So the feeling of being a “fake” is the inner struggle between what you know yourself to be and these other images. This is what the “game of life” is about… finding yourself. And it is easier with your Profile.

Manage “external change” better by being your best!

Your innate Personality does not change over time so getting a Your Life Your Way Profile Readout is like having a life long instruction manual about how to live, your way.

What changes is the degree to which you live your Personality Needs, how you evolve to express your higher potential. There might be other periods in your life in which you are challenged, but with your Profile there is a greater probability of overcoming them because you know how to tap into what is natural for you to do.

Knowing yourself with this amount of depth, allows you to make conscious choices of how to “run your own show” instead of repeating the inherited memory programs. It facilitates you accessing your talents that reside in your frontal cortex.

You begin to see what it is like to be the real you from this area of your brain and you find yourself being consistently happier, healthier and more fulfilled. It is not only a fast process, but extremely fun and effective.You are multifaceted from a Personality perspective. You are more than 1 of 8 types.

The Facets of this Personality Profile include your 3 Core Facets which are called Inner Personality, Personal Project and Personality Plus. Your Unique Individual Needs in these 3 Facets describe who you are and define your Life Purpose.

The next 3 Facets are about your Energy: Emotional, Intellectual and Balance. Your Unique Individual Needs in these 3 Facets describe how you stay motivated, find solutions to problems and live in harmony. The final 6 Facets are about you in relationship to the outside world & others. You have a Unique Individual Need for the Facets of Relationship, Work, Home, Society, plus your predictable Reaction under stress and how you Reconnect when you lose yourself.

When you really want to become the best version of yourself for a better life, then reach out to me here or on Your Life Your Way Academy. See you soon!