Expectations
Posted on December 23, 2020 by Trishona Lindsay, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Drivers of Dissapointments
Expectations are premeditated resentments.
Why?
Expecting something to happen will not make it happen.
The problem of expectation will occur when we tend to expect something to happen without having good reasons for that expectation. If we believe that our expectations alone will bring us what we want, we are using magical thinking and setting ourselves up for disappointment.
Ensure faith is aligned with your thoughts and expectation.
I noticed with individuals especially with a client of mine, they are concerned about what the other party to the relationship would say or do, expecting them to behave a certain way and say or not say certain things.
Take the time to appreciate the NOW, whatever you are learning, enjoying, and experiencing.
Ensure to incorporate communication so that what is expected is shared mutually.
We are in an unrelenting world!