On Growth from pain:
Posted on May 25, 2020 by Samar Hajir, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
'The lessons we learn from pain will always make us the stronger"
Have you ever been in a situation where you felt:
-betrayed
-disappointed
-used
-abused
-fooled
-robbed
-violated
-cheated on
-lied to
-conspired against
The list goes on and on.. We can’t predict or dictate how others choose to treat or mistreat us.
We can’t undo their actions after it’s done.
We can’t go back in time to try and be more vigilant, protective, careful or avoidant.
In life, it’s almost sure that at some point in time we will find ourselves in events and situations where we get deeply hurt and severely harmed, sometimes, by those closest to us, who we trusted the most and failed us the most.
What you choose to do with that harm is your responsibility and it defines your DESTINY.
You didn’t choose to be hurt but what you do with that hurt is your choice.
Will you use it to play the Victim or to invest in becoming a VICTOR ?
Because pain is inevitable but suffering is optional.
Because we can’t live in our own shell afraid of pain but we can use that pain and convert it into a GAIN!
Embrace pain, learn from it then make it work for you!
