Why Everytime You Try, You End Up Giving Up
Posted on April 29, 2020 by Annemarie Abdel-Nour, One of Thousands of Money and Finance Coaches on Noomii.
For further understanding of human complexities and fear of failure.
Everyone knows the same old story, a story that must involve one or several characters that surround almost each life, it can even be you, you might be the character we are about to discuss.
The energetic, ambitious and striving character that constantly comes up with a different idea, a different plan to improve the quality of their life. One day the idea pops in their head and you see how excited and thrilled they are when they’re discussing it and explaining it to others, only to find out later that they are no longer working on it.
So psychologically speaking we can break into 2 main parts…
The first reason would be == the effortless reward our brains had already received by the praise that we had got when explaining our ideas, it makes us believe that the idea was good enough that others actually admired it but we end up giving up on it because we have received the unsensory outcome and result
The second reason is== FEAR!! The truth is that the majority of existing human beings will always avoid the chance of failure, it goes down to our deeply rooted evolution of our consciousness away from the troops. With human consciousness and analytical brain, it became a trap to be involved in social norms and definitions, human beings want to be looked up to, admired, glorified and praised.
Failure can never get you none of those, that’s why most people only avoid taking a chance of what might happen in order not to lose what they have.
