Valentina N London, England
Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Entrepreneurship Coach
MS, CIMA (Chartered Institute of Management Accountants), Psychology Diploma: Anxiety & Panic Attacks, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy Coach Practitioner
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London, England E14
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- Hourly Rate: £100 to £150 British Pounds
- Gender: Female
- Training: The International Association of Coaching® (IAC), The Priority Academy
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About Me
Are you still asking, "Why am I stuck?" This question is a costly distraction.
Often this shows up most clearly in relationships. You meet someone new, yet the dynamic feels identical to the last one. Different face, same outcome. Eventually you start thinking all men / women / people / situations are the same. They’re not. What’s actually happening is that you are unconsciously replaying the same internal scenario, and no matter who enters your life, they are cast into the same role. As long as the script stays the same, the ending cannot change. The important part is this: this pattern is not permanent, and it can be changed and fixed.
The truth is, you are not stuck. You are repeating patterns that were learned a long time ago.
From early life, we all pick up ways of thinking, reacting, and making decisions that once helped us cope. Over time, those same patterns begin to limit us. They influence how much money we allow ourselves to earn, the kinds of relationships we get into, and why we often sabotage things just as they start going well. These patterns are very good at keeping life familiar, and very good at keeping it small.
This isn’t a problem of intelligence, effort, or willpower. Most of my clients are capable, thoughtful people who have tried “trying harder.” The issue is that the same unconscious habits keep running in the background.
I work with people who are tired of going in circles and want real structure and clarity in their lives. I don’t focus on endlessly analysing the past or talking things through without change. I help clients identify what’s actually driving their behaviour and change it at the source.
In our work together, I help you:
Break the patterns that keep leading to the same frustrations in work, money, or relationships.
Build new ways of responding and deciding that support confidence, stability, and healthier connections.
Create a life that works in practice, financially, emotionally, and practically not just something tha
Reviews
3 reviews (5.0)
Valentina was instrumental in helping me overcome significant stress in both my personal and professional life. Working in financial services, my role involves working long hours, and heavy pressure. With existing conditions of stress and anxieity, this put me on the verge of crashing. My personal life was also impacted, as my stress and anxiety caused strains within my personal relationships. Fortunately, through Valentinas sessions, I was able to overcome the anxiety and understand the root causes of my stress. With her help, we explored and analysed my history and were able to pinpoint the events that triggered my stress, and ways in which this could be managed. We also focused on my true desires in life, and how they could truly be attained. Im now in a significantly better place with myself, my career and personal relationships feel much healthier, and Im genuinely more optimistic and driven about the future. I would highly recommend her services to anyone looking to better themselves.
Rahul
I moved to a new country to be with my mister Right. Even though I full heartedly love London, I was struggling to get accustomed to the new environment. I didnt feel that I belong there and I was feeling lonely because my partner used to work long hours and I was struggling to make new friends and to do the job I like. Eventually, I found myself constantly complaining and picking fights with my partner, which was straining our relationship. Valentina helped me change my attitude and stop dwelling on negative things. This made a difference in my relationship and how I felt in a new place. She also worked with me to set up my makeup artist business, something I would have never done on my own because I was not feeling confident and doubted how it would work out in a new country. I was able to improve my health habits like healthy eating, exercising, drinking more water, and avoiding sweets and I started to feel lighter and not lazy. All these are due to learning how to comprehend my negative feelings and not replace happiness with sweets. I changed my thinking in so many ways. I am now more confident and less reliant on other people's advice. I learnt to say no and how to stop doing things I don't want to do. Additionally, I have learned to accept my relationship with my parents for what it is, which has helped me to let go of resentment and be in better terms with them.
Lidiia, make-up artist, London
I had the pleasure of working with Valentina, she helped me to reorganize my business in a way that enabled me to work less while simultaneously increasing my prices and attracting more quality clients. We identified areas where I could streamline my processes and optimize my offerings, I hired 4 new staff members who helped me with the unbearable workload I used to have when I thought I was the only one who could do this work. And with more free time I concentrated on the sales work and attracting new clients and managing the business itself instead of being stuck with the operational side of things. Making these changes resulted in a more fulfilling and successful business and more time with my friends and family. After the business side was sorted, she also helped me immensely with improving my relationships with others, as well as my relationship with myself, such as my self-esteem, how to identify and challenge negative self-talk, build self-confidence and self-worth, setting boundaries, how to recognize and walk away from people who are not adding value to my life. I never really thought about this side of things until recently and it really helped not only in my interpersonal relationships but also in my sales activities and led to me attracting new quality people into my life and expanding my social circle. I am yet to find my life partner, but at least now I know the qualities I should look for and who to avoid. Overall, I would highly recommend Valentina.
Eric, Entrepreneur, Stockholm, Sweden
