Alo Sarv San Diego, California
Relationship Coach, Executive Coach, Leadership Coach
- San Diego, California 92111
- (619) 929-0593
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- Hourly Rate: $0 to $500 US Dollars
- Gender: Male
- Training: Accomplishment Coaching
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About Me
I've had a 20 year successful career as a technology executive before transitioning to coaching. Throughout my first career, I neglected my relationships and found them to be difficult, confusing, and frustrating. I used to say "love is like the flu - it's bad enough it happens every few years, why would anyone go looking for it?!"
After completing the Accomplishment Coaches' Training Program, I declared myself to have relationships as my north star. I believe our relationships are both the source of our biggest joy, as well as our biggest misery, and I'm making it my mission to help people achieve happy relationships, whether at home, work, friends, family members, and most importantly, yourself.
It all starts from recognizing our own emotions -- being aware of them, and being able to name them. Once we're able to do that, we can recognize that all emotions stem from unmet needs. If we're then able to articulate our unmet needs in a healthy, non-violent way to our partners, and our partners are willing to meet those needs, the relationship flourishes. All relationship problems stem from one or both partners being either unaware, unwilling, or unable to meet the other's needs, often due to one or both partners not having the skills to communicate their needs in a healthy way.
After deeply studying relationships and practicing these in my own life, I've seen a complete transformation in my relationship to relationships and my overall joy. These are skills that can be learned by anyone. Relationships don't have to be a source of misery.
Reviews
As a client of Alo's for over a year, I have experienced his coaching style to be welcoming, nurturing, and greatly dedicated to my well-being and goals for the life I envision. My initial goals for meeting with Alo were professionally and financially driven. Within the first three months of meeting, those goals were more than accomplished. Within the following six months, he helped me discover my life's purpose and a deeper understanding of my most authentic self. He also coached me through some difficult life situations including the process of grief from infant loss, infertility, and marital challenges. Alo is exceptional at articulating ideas and concepts that help me process complex situations in my life -- even when I am unsure of what exactly I need! He not only provides me with practical strategies and tools to navigate and strengthen relationships in my personal and professional life, but also serves as a source of inspiration and motivation, always believing in my ability to succeed. I recommend Alo as a coach for anyone seeking to reach their goals through empowerment of identifying and addressing their unmet needs in relationships personally and professionally.
Nichole D.